Compassionate doula care for miscarriage, termination, stillbirth, infant loss, and postpartum grief.
Compassionate doula care for miscarriage, termination, stillbirth, infant loss, and postpartum grief.
Unitarian Universalist minister, artist, and certified death & grief doula based in Las Cruces, NM. I blend trauma‑informed practice with ritual, art, and practical care to help families grieve in ways that are honest, culturally rooted, and sustainable.
Certifications: Certified Doula; Certified Death & Grief Doula (NELDA Proficient).
Focus: Perinatal loss, infant loss, postpartum grief.
Approach: Grounded, non‑judgmental, spiritually inclusive.
Parents and caregivers navigating:
Pregnancy loss (any trimester)
Stillbirth or neonatal death
Termination for medical reasons (Families seeking support following elective termination are warmly welcome through our sliding-scale self-pay option.)
Postpartum grief after a difficult birth
You don’t have to do this alone. I walk with you—steady, kind, and practical.
Loss‑Informed Doula Care (T1032)
Grounding presence and emotional support
Options counseling (what to expect, hospital/home choices)
Memory‑making & legacy rituals (footprints, letters, keepsakes)
Spiritual care aligned with your values and culture
Partner/sibling support
Care coordination with your medical team and funeral home
Post‑loss recovery support (sleep, nourishment, boundaries)
Planning & Paperwork
Practical checklists before/during/after loss
Scripts for telling family, work, and community
Referrals to therapy, support groups, hospice, and financial aid
Groups & Circles
Monthly virtual grief circle (60 min)
Partner‑only check‑ins (because they grieve, too)
For Providers
In‑service trainings: trauma‑ and grief‑informed bedside presence
Rapid response: on‑call support for perinatal loss cases
Quick consult (15 min) — share what’s happening, no pressure.
Care plan — choose what you need now (and what can wait).
Support — visits or virtual; hospital, clinic, or home.
Aftercare — follow‑up for the weeks that follow.
Availability: Evenings & weekends available; hospital calls prioritized.
Private Pay: The After Practice honors both the worth of this work and the realities families face. Each session is valued at $200. Medicaid clients are billed at standard reimbursement rates. Private-pay clients may choose from the sliding-scale options below; no proof of income required. Sliding scale-$ 90-$200
Provider Referrals: OBs, midwives, NICU, L&D—welcome.
Paperwork is the last thing you need. I’ll make it simple.
Is this medical care?
No. Doula care is non‑medical emotional, informational, and practical support. I collaborate with your medical team.
Can you be with us at the hospital?
Yes, where hospital policy permits. I also support at home before/after visits.
What if I’m not sure what I need?
That’s normal. We’ll start with a short call and take it one step at a time.
Request a 15‑minute consult
Name • Phone • Email • Your city • Brief note
Or email: revbell@theafterpractice.com
Serving: New Mexico (virtual & in‑person). Based in Las Cruces.
LGBTQIA+ affirming, trauma‑informed, culturally responsive
Plain‑language materials
Hybrid support (phone/text/Zoom/in‑person)
For what was hoped for and lost,
for what was carried and could not stay,
may grace abide.
May this be a place where grief is named,
and no one walks alone.